ICQ and many chat rooms are often the place for ... virtual sex.
For many it has become a great way to anonymously and without any consequences to change their half. We propose to talk about this phenomenon.
The two sides describe their alleged sexual acts against one another. Tellingly, this "sin" family people. Try to understand why and for what purpose do they do it.
Women are more or less clear. Take, for example, a young woman who is on leave for child care. Her life becomes monotonous, relatively boring, as every day the previous one, especially if there is no way to get somewhere with your spouse, for example, no one to leave a small child.
Male whole day is very busy, and the evening fellowship is reduced to a discussion of domestic problems and a rare sex. As a result of mutual understanding between husband and wife is getting smaller, the couple gradually begin to drift apart, no longer at the touch of vertigo, and persuasive words almost inaudible.
But the woman still remains a woman even if her life at the moment - it's diapers and pans. She wants to be desirable and sexy, but, unfortunately, the husband gives her the right feelings, but to do so she herself did not want to or because of laziness or the belief that this problem is men.
And here comes to the aid of some dating site, where the plant form, and laid out the best photos, the fact that the presence of a spouse, child, and a few extra inches around the waist glossed over.
After some time, there is some macho men who willingly starts a correspondence with her (when, of course, the wife is not home), beginning with innocent questions, and gradually moving to a more relaxed conversation.
He can offer her to meet, but she refers to reckless employment and defers meeting. Gradually the theme of correspondence are becoming more and more frivolous, and there comes a point when a man goes on to "decisive" action, and between start sharing their sexual desires.
All This happens in different ways. Someone just gets satisfaction from such an erotic correspondence, someone is really capable of orgasm from reading the written companion.
Can we regard it as a betrayal of your spouse?
At one of the forums people are hotly debated issue."If it's just sex, then I think not. But if you then have is communication, it is certainly a betrayal. "
"This is a moral treason, if so change it and really change at no cost. I have it engaged in sex chat ... it was fun. My partner had a real orgasm! "
"I had a virtual sex, and it was a betrayal. We were sitting with a stranger in a chat, he "got into cave" and I "licked hardened barrel. Finished at the same time. "
"Well, what kind of treason? It's super, it's just class! I bastard of virtual sex! "
Apparently, the man reshivshiysya on such a relationship would not "pull the rubber and spend an enormous amount of time before the monitor, describing his" vzmokshie panties. " He will go to the meeting and continue their fantasies "in the real world."
For what purpose married woman enters into a correspondence? Out of boredom, it is obvious. From the need to feel desired, not only her husband, partly on the ability to obtain sexual satisfaction.
And psychologists are advised to look into the past, dozamuzhnyuyu woman's life. They argue that the way she tries to escape from the trap. " A woman can not, as once, to leave someone who already does not satisfy her physically and spiritually, it is limited in its freedom of a spouse, child and situation.
Prior to her marriage, she probably had a choice among young people. Moreover, through such communication in a woman may well rise self-esteem, which is very positive impact on family life.
Subconsciously, the woman who blames himself for her unattractiveness and cooling to her husband, a swim in the sea of compliments and gentle, tender words, even if read on a computer screen, will gain confidence and will bring her on the relationship with their spouse.For what purpose and why married men give birth to a virtual novels and have virtual sex?
One confessed that he loves his wife to distraction, in any case would not go to meetings with other women for sex, but it simply is not enough communication as a single life (that's another proof). Betrayal of his wife he did not think so as they say: "turn off the computer and forget about them immediately."
But here in the West, psychologists are sounding the alarm: virtual joy can replace the people a real one sex.
For example, in Germany, 12 million adults who prefer not to engage in sexual contact. In England, 27% of young menaged 29 years and less than women do without the "carnal" pleasures, quite satisfied with pornographic films and cybersex. A record of alienation between man and Women will Denmark: Up to 65% of Danes periodically prefer a real computer connections.
However, it seems that virtual sex is that somewhere between treason and fun - so we saved from boredom, but use the words, which speak only their mother, but not entirely alien to us humans.
