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Interesting facts about sex!

Now not only it's being talked about sex during children's programs, it is everywhere. 

I it is good or bad, we can't judge. We can only offer a distraction from the banality and learn some interesting facts about sex. 


1. Sex is being enjoyed not only by people, but also by some kinds of apes and dolphins.
2.Specialists in smell argue that the most exciting scent for male part of humanity - is a blend of lavender and pumpkin. Want to impress your beloved one? Arrange an aromatic bath with lavender essential oil and cook for the dinner delicious pumpkin pie.
3.In the ancient Greece man who cheated on his wife was forced to shave all the pubic hair and to insert big radishes into his anus. Now, in the case of adultery, people file for divorce, but in vain.
.. Radish is a more effective method, doesen't it?
4.By the way, now Greeks are having sex more than other nations. So if you do not have sex, go to Greece.
5.Some women may be allergic to semen. Male proteins may cause itching and burning sensations in genitals. But this does not mean that such delicate women can not become pregnant.
6.During the life male produces about 15 liters of semen. Feel some impressive figure?
7.Non-smoking men devote to their sexual lives twice as much attention than the heavy smokers.
11 interesting facts about sex8.Doctors, that conduct an ultrasound of the fetus, oftenly observe erection in boys during the last trimester of pregnancy. Oh, those men, you say, even in their mother's belly, they think of ... Yes, yes, about himself - about sex.
9.During ejaculation  about 100 million sperm cells is being released. Only 200 of them reach their goals - a female egg. Wins and makes it only the strongest one...
10.An average speed of the ejaculation is about 44 kilometers per hour (it decreases with age).
11. There are   as much as 8,000 nerve endings on female clitoris. But on the male penis there are nearly 4000 of them, which is two times less. Maybe that's why the female orgasm is much stronger than men's one?
12.Only 1 percent of all women can reach orgasm from simple weasels in the chest area.Everyone else comes to fondle himself in other places.
13. Don't think that only teenagers are engaged in masturbation. About 70 percent of married women enjoy masturbation and do not hesitate. While more than half of them do not speak about it even to their husbands.
14. Females love to fantasize and dream, not only in anticipation of sex, but also during it. Men prefer to enjoy the moment and not to think about anything.
15. Some women to have increases in sexual desire several times during pregnancy or menstruation.

Six exercises to enhance orgasm

Strengthens hips
During the sex thighs and butt are working quite intensively to prepare the muscles for "sex-load". The following exercise  will help:
- Stand straight, feet at the shoulder width, hands on hips. Start slowly rotating your hips in a clockwise direction, describing hip circles. Pay special attention to the breath: during inhales push hips forward and reduce pelvic muscles on exhale. In opposite, relax the muscles and put the hip back. You must perform 10 revolutions in one direction and another 10 in another. Make it every day, eventually increasing the number of repetitions to 20 in each direction.
Predicted results: regularly performing this simple exercise, you will find that your hips become more flexible, easier to rotate and move relative to the partner - that way you provide additional stimulation of the clitoris.
Want more?
Your choice - belly dancing.


Working to balance
Muscles of the body form a kind of corset that covers the spine and ribs, sinking up to the pelvis. They are responsible for any movement and balance. To make the muscles of the trunk to work, perform the following exercise:
Get down, face down on a towel or mat. Lean on bent at the elbows, hands (palms shoulder width apart), tear off the floor like you're pressing. Body weight falls on your toes and forearms. Pull the stomach. Your body is like a thin, straight chord. Fix this position for 10 seconds. Make each day, gradually extending the time delay of up to 30 seconds.
Predicted results: the elastic body muscles provide a comfortable balance in a variety of sexual positions and contribute to the intensity of orgasm.
Want more? Buy fitbol! Even just sitting on it, you'll be forced to use their muscles properly.


Develope flexibility
Flexibility and plasticity - that's the important components of quality sex. Check the level of its flexibility - to do this very simple exercise - stand up straight and try to get the toes with your fingertips without bending their knees. If you encounter difficulties, then you have something to work on. Do the following:
Fall on the floor, leaning on his hands and knees. Uprites hands on the floor shoulder-width apart, knees dilute the width of the hips. Pull the stomach. On inspiration - to lift your buttocks up as high as possible, and bend the spine as possible. Look at the ceiling. Hold this position for several seconds, then exhale and turn the eye down to the floor. Lower your buttocks to the starting position and straighten the spine. Do this exercise 3 times a week for 3 sets at once.
Predicted results: the flexibility of the body affects the depth of penetration of the penis and the level of access to your hot spots - for example, point G.
Want more? Attend special classes on stretching and / or enjoy yoga - yoga breathing techniques are beneficial to force an orgasm.


Toning muscles of the legs and butt
Combine pleasure with enjoyable: bringing the leg muscles in tone, can not only improve sex lives, but also boldly wear short shorts. To achieve this, perform the following exercise: get down on the floor, leaning on their elbows and knees. Uprites hands on the floor shoulder width apart and knees dilute the width of the hips. Straighten your back, gather in the stomach.Fall on your elbows and lift the bent at the knee right leg up, straining the muscles of the buttocks. Drag your toes up as if the ceiling falls on you, but you must keep him on top. Thigh parallel to the floor. Slowly lower your leg to the starting position. Do this exercise every day - 3 sets of 10 reps for each leg.
Predicted results: some experts sexologists believe that the hamstrings are associated with the pelvic floor muscles - the path to orgasm is shorter.
Want more? "Get on" the bike and go for long bike rides - training the muscles of the legs, you simultaneously strengthen and cardiovascular system.


Strengthen the hands
Strong arm muscles especially useful for those who are not willing to reduce their sex life to a boring missionary position. If your plans posture when standing or woman on top, it is necessary to strengthen his hands. The proposed exercises are unlikely to turn you into a Madonna with the latest pictures, but with systematic implementation, will dispense with the traitorous tremble in his hands on the way to orgasm.
Starting position: Sit on the edge of a chair or bathtub. Arms straight, palms rely on the surface on which you sit. Legs extended in front of him and bent at the knees, feet can not be opened from the floor. Slowly lift your buttocks from the surface, put forward their forwards, so that the body weight fell on his hands, which continue to remain straight. Now also slowly squat, bending your elbows. Ensure that your forearms remained upright, and elbows do not went home in different directions. Stop when your arms form a right angle or you will feel a slight tension in the shoulder joints. Return to starting position. Breathe, sinking down, and inhale, lifting up.
Predicted results: mastering a standing position and the woman on top.
Want more? Dumbbells in your hands!


Adding elasticity to your butt
Tightened buttocks - a perfect occasion to try to posture in which the partner is behind you. Best exercise for the muscles of the buttocks - it's "imaginary chair.
Sit down on an imaginary chair! To do this, push back against the wall, place the thighs parallel to the floor, let the arms hang freely along the body. Stay in this position exactly one minute. Tighten your thighs and buttocks! To get started follow the approaches 5.4 to 1 minute of each 3 times a week.
Predicted results: more rapid achievement of orgasm by the rhythmic contraction of the muscles of hips and buttocks before reaching the peak of pleasure.
Want more? Sign up for a kickboxing or proceed with the implementation of the third exercise in our fitness test - stand up and sit down without using their hands.

How to survive the abstinence?

Basic instinct for many people - not the one which you may think of. 

It is eating and sleeping - that what is sacred! And without intimacy we can still do well. 

But if the life is good without sex? 


In fact, the idea of ​​sexual abstinence is not new. Celibacy was introduced by the ancient priests, which were able not even to dream of sexual pleasures. In the times of the ancient Indians, celibacy was obligatory for the priestesses, who were regarded as the wives of the god of the sun. And what man would want to compete with God himself! One never knows an hour, is still asleep or sends a drought ...

Sexual abstinence is in vogue? ..

Abstinence from sexual activity is happening now, not only because of religious reasons.
It seems that today there is the world's fashion for abstinence. Anyway, America's slogans, "Forget about sex" now are more popular than "for free love." That's because American politicians have concluded: there is too much sex in the country - and decided to direct the sexual energy of the young generation to a peaceful course. Rather than running the streets with a worried look, its even better than trees are being planted, helping old ladies to bring food home. Proportion of meaning in such a policy is: who will like, if 14-year-old daughter will tell about the pregnancy, and her son-a student will be treated by a venereologist. Americans are so enthusiastically rushed to educate teens that they themselves have forgotten about sex. Polls show that 16% of couples in the U.S. did not have sex for a month, while 7% did not recall the sexual pleasures throughout the year. And, according to abstentions, feel great.
In Europe, there is a similar situation. About 5% of couples deliberately refusefrom intimate life. Moreover, they refuse - and are still proud of their decision! In England, they even  set up the club of married people for whom sexual abstinence is a regular thing. Opponents of the sexual life have arranged something like a competition: Who will last longer. (However, it is unclear who and how is going to check the result?). Some are hoping that with no sex they will be spiritually purer, others - that will live longer, while others simply want to strike the surrounding people with their extravagance. Blue hair now, no surprise, and a navel ring, too. And here is a family man who claims that cross stitching gives him more joy than one orgasm, just in the spotlight.
Refusal from sex became a fad for many athletes. Thanks for a Greek athlete Ikku Tarentskomu: preparing for the Olympics in 444 BC, he forbade his physical love. Meat for wild boars - yes, sex - no. By winning, the athlete is sharing with others his secret. About boars all immediately forgotten, but remembered about abstinence! Some modern followers of Ikka, preparing for the Olympics, refuse to have sex during a year and even more .
Other people deprive themselves of sex, to conceive a child. Until recently, popular theory stated that men needed for some time to forget about sex to increase the chance of conception a baby. Allegedly, during a sex position in the body accumulates as germ cells, they certainly do the trick. However, not all modern doctors agree. For example, Israeli and Australian doctors believe that sexual spermatozoa sperm is qualitatively better in males having sex more oftenly.

Do we need sex?

There are, of course, asexual citizens who do not remember when was the  last time the had a sexual  contact: three or five years ago? As a rule, this applies to people suffering from alcohol addiction - they have a weak sexual constitution and the sex they almost do not need.
For most people regular sexual practice is still needed. After making love, as we are assured by the doctors, the body is being healed much better than with all of the vitamins and nutritional supplements combined. If you avoid sex therapy, you can amass a bunch of health problems. And this concerns both women and men.
Ladies, abstaining from sex, are more prone to depression. In fact, during the sexual intercource,the body rapidly produces endorphins - the hormone of good mood, which at the same time also acts as an analgesic. That is why many women that have no sex are in bad mood and have a migraine. It is believed that 20 minutes of good sex relieves stress better than the hour session of psychotherapy.
Denial of sexuality is fraught with women's diseases. Sexual excitement, not finding out, starts izedat body from the inside: the blood rushes to the genitals and if there is no orgasm, stagnant in the pelvis. Hence adnexitises and other gynecological ailments. Especially difficult it is for middle-aged ladies - recall this is not 65, as many think, and 30 with a little - when female sexuality is at its peak. Young ladies are easier to carry sexual siege - their libido has not really razbuzhdeno.But the owners of strong sexual temperament of any age have hard times: their body requires high-quality sex, and as often as possible. If, however, with intim napryazhenka, a woman becomes irritable and aggressive, throws out his anger on everyone - households, colleagues and neighbors. Like, if I am wrong, and I will not stand on ceremony!
Deficiency of sex can trigger the development of mastitis and other breast diseases. Found that the virgins are ill with breast cancer are more likely than those who live an active sex life. Do supporters of Tantra Yoga is on this score his own theory. They are convinced that women's disease arise from the fact that the women receive less masculine energy. Tantrikas believe that a woman's breast has a positive charge and negative male female sex organs, on the contrary, negative, and male - is positive. During sex there is a double energy magnet, which has good effects on both.
After a long abstinence woman's libido can "sleep", and it may be harder to come to the sexual norm. For example, instead of 15 minutes of foreplay, she will need half an hour, instead of instant alert - many persuasions. Natural lubrication may be insufficient, so you have to use the intimate gel or cream Lubrication. Otherwise, sexual intercourse will be painful.
No less of a problem brings sexy simple men. The older the stronger sex, the more dangerous sexual abstinence. If the 25-30 years it will come in the form of sex for several days, then 40 may need help sexologist, and 60 and does not exclude a violation of potency. Prostatitis, accelerated ejaculation and other male problems are an inevitable consequence of prolonged pauses in sexual activity. However, men rarely voluntarily go to abstinence. If a woman may deliberately keep themselves for the big and pure love, the man does not pursue such goals. Not near a pretty partner? Choose unsympathetic.Unsympathetic, too, no? Then will masturbate.

What do you do when all have the same refrain?

However, few of us who manage to avoid periods of sexual "drought". For example, the husband is away on a long trip. Or suppose you are in an interesting position, and the doctor was strictly forbidden you to sex. Or relative came to stay for a week and stayed for six months - on a cot in your bedroom. Have to arrange a sex strike. How to survive it with minimal losses?
Masturbation, according to physicians, yet does not harm anyone. Of course, this is only a surrogate of intimacy, but that's not all! That's my husband back from the trip, the child will grow up, leave, finally, the relatives, and you will return to full sex. By the way, you can use sexual experience, accumulated during the "novel with me." Examining one's own body, you give the partner more than hints!
If you're disgusted masturbation, find other ways to pamper yourself. Buy a beautiful lingerie, silk sheets. And let the partner does not see you all this erotic splendor - this is, again, temporarily. But you raise your own self-esteem, which in fact quite intimate it is worth.
Give yourself more pleasant emotions. Eat strictly forbidden myself chocolate or banana - these foods trigger the production of endorphins. Sublimation - another surefire way to experience sexual abstinence without loss. Still, Freud observed that sublimation - one of the psychological defense mechanisms. A defense can be different: to write poetry, draw pictures, sing songs - if only you liked. Who knows, maybe the sexual energy, transformed into works, make you world famous?

Virtual Sex: adultery, or entertainment?

Spaces of the Internet are full of special dating sites that can help you meet and communicate with people without leaving home. 

ICQ and many chat rooms are often the place for ... virtual sex. 

For many it has become a great way to anonymously and without any consequences to change their half. We propose to talk about this phenomenon. 

The two sides describe their alleged sexual acts against one another. Tellingly, this "sin" family people. Try to understand why and for what purpose do they do it.

Women are more or less clear. Take, for example, a young woman who is on leave for child care. Her life becomes monotonous, relatively boring, as every day the previous one, especially if there is no way to get somewhere with your spouse, for example, no one to leave a small child.
Male whole day is very busy, and the evening fellowship is reduced to a discussion of domestic problems and a rare sex. As a result of mutual understanding between husband and wife is getting smaller, the couple gradually begin to drift apart, no longer at the touch of vertigo, and persuasive words almost inaudible.
But the woman still remains a woman even if her life at the moment - it's diapers and pans. She wants to be desirable and sexy, but, unfortunately, the husband gives her the right feelings, but to do so she herself did not want to or because of laziness or the belief that this problem is men.
And here comes to the aid of some dating site, where the plant form, and laid out the best photos, the fact that the presence of a spouse, child, and a few extra inches around the waist glossed over.
After some time, there is some macho men who willingly starts a correspondence with her (when, of course, the wife is not home), beginning with innocent questions, and gradually moving to a more relaxed conversation.
He can offer her to meet, but she refers to reckless employment and defers meeting. Gradually the theme of correspondence are becoming more and more frivolous, and there comes a point when a man goes on to "decisive" action, and between start sharing their sexual desires.
All This happens in different ways. Someone just gets satisfaction from such an erotic correspondence, someone is really capable of orgasm from reading the written companion.
Can we regard it as a betrayal of your spouse?
At one of the forums people are hotly debated issue.
"If it's just sex, then I think not. But if you then have is communication, it is certainly a betrayal. "
"This is a moral treason, if so change it and really change at no cost. I have it engaged in sex chat ... it was fun. My partner had a real orgasm! "
"I had a virtual sex, and it was a betrayal. We were sitting with a stranger in a chat, he "got into cave" and I "licked hardened barrel. Finished at the same time. "
"Well, what kind of treason? It's super, it's just class! I bastard of virtual sex! "
Apparently, the man reshivshiysya on such a relationship would not "pull the rubber and spend an enormous amount of time before the monitor, describing his" vzmokshie panties. " He will go to the meeting and continue their fantasies "in the real world."
For what purpose married woman enters into a correspondence? Out of boredom, it is obvious. From the need to feel desired, not only her husband, partly on the ability to obtain sexual satisfaction.
And psychologists are advised to look into the past, dozamuzhnyuyu woman's life. They argue that the way she tries to escape from the trap. " A woman can not, as once, to leave someone who already does not satisfy her physically and spiritually, it is limited in its freedom of a spouse, child and situation.
Prior to her marriage, she probably had a choice among young people. Moreover, through such communication in a woman may well rise self-esteem, which is very positive impact on family life.
Subconsciously, the woman who blames himself for her unattractiveness and cooling to her husband, a swim in the sea of ​​compliments and gentle, tender words, even if read on a computer screen, will gain confidence and will bring her on the relationship with their spouse.
For what purpose and why married men give birth to a virtual novels and have virtual sex?
One confessed that he loves his wife to distraction, in any case would not go to meetings with other women for sex, but it simply is not enough communication as a single life (that's another proof). Betrayal of his wife he did not think so as they say: "turn off the computer and forget about them immediately."
But here in the West, psychologists are sounding the alarm: virtual joy can replace the people a real one sex.
For example, in Germany, 12 million adults who prefer not to engage in sexual contact. In England, 27% ​​of young menaged 29 years and less than women do without the "carnal" pleasures, quite satisfied with pornographic films and cybersex. A record of alienation between man and Women will Denmark: Up to 65% of Danes periodically prefer a real computer connections.
However, it seems that virtual sex is that somewhere between treason and fun - so we saved from boredom, but use the words, which speak only their mother, but not entirely alien to us humans.

Contraception for young family

Oh my God! I still can not get used to. My name is Mom! Remember how in the movie "Once, twenty years later" heroine Natalie Gundarevoj asked classmates what she has achieved in his life, he works with ... "She replied that she was - just a mom. 


I did not understand why her face so much happiness and so much tranquility ... And now I understand. This is when your life is a miracle in some part of another life. When your hand holds a tiny soft soft handle when warm lips to touch your cheek and whisper: "Mother!"
Once went to a pharmacy, do not remember why. I remember that impressed me a conversation between two girls. Apparently, they were preparing to rendezvous and decided to buy them something for protection or not. One phrase has plunged me into a long meditation. She said: "Come on, do not waste money, he buys. And do not buy - nothing, suddenly cost. And will not do well, you know what to do ... must go! "
How so? We are in fact talking about a new life, of human life! How can so easily decide whether it or not, and let things take their course? After all, if not mentally ready or not as circumstances permit, to answer for their actions and always think about the way of protection.
Maybe I am only one, but for me, my family, my child, my future children mean a lot and every child should be wanted and conceived in love. Almost immediately after the birth I went to a gynecologist, and asked me to find suitable means of contraception. I was breast-feeding and the doctor said that while the principle of lactational amenorrhea. But the theory of theory, but in practice many cases. Babes-same age born very often ...
We once met with friends and the conversation turned to contraception. We open up and each shared their experiences. I almost immediately after birth found intrauterine hormonal system and for all time use have never regretted it.
It is a system with a miniature tank. It is a hormone that is released daily into the uterine cavity and the effect on the endometrium. And the impact is very positive.
Someone of her friends did not use a permanent method, someone used a condom, some spermicide. The first option I do not like it because it requires additional manipulation and somehow all the romance disappears.
And for us it is important to keep it, because after birth, both still a little worried. Life since has changed dramatically. We have a new role - parent. Combine it with the role of sex partners - no easy task.
I feed my chest, mucous in my thinned and spermicides cause slight irritation. Besides, they do not give sufficient protection.
Another friend of mine took a mini-pill:
- I'm basically a mini-pill like. They can and nursing drinks. Only the receive mode is very strict.
Here's what I did not really fit - I started working a few hours a day. The rhythm of life has become more intense and drink tablets exactly on time I would forget.
intrauterine system is placed on 5 years and do not need to think about it every night. If there are no contraindications it can also be set up and nursing, and even those over 40. In addition to all the doctors say its therapeutic effect in a number of gynecological diseases.
Another couple chose a vaginal ring:
- And my husband is protected vaginal ring. Very pleased. And every day pills do not drink, and the hormone locally released.Until all are satisfied.
And I probably would not suit. I have a heightened sensitivity to me, frankly, very uncomfortable to use condoms, tampons during menstruation. So, I think, the presence of the ring into the vagina during intimacy afforded to the discomfort. From the same system I have no discomfort. Threads that descend into the vagina (for them then the system is removed), very soft and does not felt.
It turned out that evening to say mostly I - girlfriend is very interested in the system and a lot of questions to ask. But better than me and qualified answer, of course, specialists.
I can only say that before installing the doctor asked me to pass some tests, did an ultrasound. At the 7 th day after the onset of menstruation has established a system, and said that its term of 5 years, but at any moment intrauterine hormonal system can be removed.
Abilities of fertility is restored in the same month. Simply a function of ovarian hormone has no effect and does not suppress ovulation. Accordingly, as soon as you want to get pregnant again, you should visit a doctor to remove the system and begin to plan.
I have a system worth more than a year. While for me it is the best option. I am confident. I - a mother, I am - a beloved woman, I have a great job and everything goes according to plan.

What if the condom breaks?

Nature, with its sarcastic put a man faced with a choice: either to love and for it to receive regular additions to the family, or forget about sex. 
Man wanted third: to love, but without consequences, and chose a condom. 
The word "condom" is derived from the Latin praeservo - protect. Hence, they are all called to be protectors: Protect against unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted ailments. 

However, they do not do it the same way. Unfortunately, the market is still living a certain number lzheprezervativov and simple cheap low-quality fakes. They are either built on a natural basis (ie, the material used for condoms, for example, lamb intestine) or made ​​non-compliance with technology .
Do not buy these insidious products, lamb and spare yourself - in fact through the pores intestine can penetrate everything from what you are trying to protect themselves, and the condom, manufactured by the simplified or retreat from it - neither of which is not protected!
So what is good and reliable protection?
The most important thing - to choose a condom so that it is not interfering with receiving pleasure, served with high quality and reliable function of protection from unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections.
The fact that everything depends on the physical and mechanical characteristics which are determined by international, European or Russian standards.They have a lot of condoms. As with any commodity, condoms are the parameters - the size (the length and width) and characteristics that define quality.But quality can sometimes take ...
In case of damage or condom breakage, regardless of whether or not ejaculation occurred, the woman must prosprintsevatsya Special offer.
To this end, suitable solutions that are easy to cook at home:
1) boric acid solution: 1 teaspoon to 1 liter of water;
2) citric acid (or lemon juice): 1 teaspoon to 1 liter of water;
3) 0.5% solution of salicylic acid: 1 teaspoon to 1 liter of water.
Douche is most conveniently using microclysters, for 3-5 minutes, washing out semen from the vagina in a circular motion. After some time, it is desirable to repeat the procedure.
Resorting to douching, it must be remembered that:
1) the concentration of acids used for the solution, not exceed 0,5-1%;
2) If at the beginning of douching felt a burning sensation, the procedure must cease immediately and dilute the solution with water.
Before the procedure can also try a solution to the taste. It should be slightly acidic, as a more concentrated solution may cause burns of the mucous membrane. Much more efficient to enter into the vagina different spermicides, which are sold in pharmacies.
If the partners are confident that the condom burst after ejaculation has occurred, in this case it is better to use additional methods and means of the so-called "emergency" contraception.

How character affects sexual behavior?

Influence of the nature of sex has been scientifically proven. Our sexual behavior is dependent on the distinct traits of our character.
Psychologists distinguish several bright psycho and their characteristics that affect our intimate life.
We recommend that you familiarize yourself with them: suddenly yy recognize yourself or your partner.

Hysteroid or demonstrative type. For people who belong to this type, characterized by narcissism, they constantly demand attention, admiration. These people put their self in the first place. Externally bright emotional, they nonetheless. not able to experience a strong, deep feelings. Having sex, such people admire him, and headed a corner - only your own pleasure.
People hyperintimate type sociable, flexible. They are characterized by excessive self-reliance and frequent good mood. They love the noisy companies, which tend to be leaders. Gipertimiki hardly endure strict discipline, deny a strict regime. In such situations, become irritable, violent, conflict. In sex occupy a dominant position, require a large commitment from a partner. Like when their abilities admire.
Asthenoneurotic type - this is extreme tiredness and irritability. Astenonevrotiki show increased attention to their health, even when they feel fine. For such people there is a predisposition to neurotic and sexual disorders. They are insecure, embarrassed and intimate partners. Men, when confronted with changes in their sexual lives, have complex failure in sex.
Sensitive type of inherent timidity and shyness. People of this type are very impressionable, easily offended, sometimes suffer from an inferiority complex.In unfamiliar surroundings, such people are shy, they are not easy to communicate with outsiders. Familiarity with one's own body in his youth, masturbation is perceived by people as something abnormal, obscene. People sensitive type difficult to communicate with the opposite sex and, moreover, to enter into an intimate relationship. Understanding partner is able to smooth out the brightly-marked sensitive features. In other cases these traits, in contrast, aggravated, causing long-term isolation.
People psihoastenicheskogo indecisive type, prone to endless arguments, fear the future, worried about him. These people are not confident in themselves and their sexual attractiveness. Consider masturbation a dirty even conscious age. Feel free to not only sex, but just exploring the potential partner. In psihoastenikov sexual dysfunction can occur at the slightest failure: inhibition of sexual arousal and orgasm in women, neurosis expectations of failure in men.
Epileptoid or excitable type is biased to a bleak mood. Such people will quickly go out of ourselves and loved to pluck the evil upon other people. Thoroughness of thinking and inertia of emotions - that is their distinguishing features. In private life they are meticulous and pedantic, in communion with others - vindictive and compromises. They are painfully jealous. Sexual attraction they are unhappy, but rather annoying. For fear of "catching" something sexual lives begin later adopted by the notional norm in society. Sometimes representatives of this type are prone to sexual aggression. During sex can be sadistic or masochistic tendencies, they tend to addiction to sexual perversion.
Unstable type - these are people who prefer fun and entertainment studies and work. In the performance of duties, they limp.In leisure time the same - active. Show no strong feelings for families. Sex for them - just a game, they do not attach importance to this process as an important part of relations between a man and a woman.
Emotionally labile type - people mood. This type is characterized by constant changes of mood, which can provoke even the most insignificant cause. Under the authority of the mood of everything: performance, sociability, appetite, and even mood. In fact, representatives of this type can have strong, deep, sincere feelings of the people who respond to them in return. Personal life for a long time confined to flirting and courtship. The main problem of the stability of relationships with emotionally labile type is the ability and willingness to adapt to his partner's mood swings.
People infantile-dependent type (mostly men), even in adulthood independent of the mother, her opinions, her desires. In regard to the proximity with the opposite sex, it is non-self, lack of initiative. These people are weak and pamper, they always want to love and approval of the mother (the oppressive and often lonely woman). Sex in the life of infantile-dependent people plays a minor role. As a result, many men of this type remain bachelors or go to the close relationship only when the initiative is completely in the hands of women. As sexual partners and mates tend to be older women with worldly and sexual experience. In marriage, would feel comfortable if their wives can not satisfy their need for maternal nurturance, care, tenderness.
Schizoid type is quite rare. Such people are closed, closed off from others, excluded from what is happening around them.They are either unwilling or unable to establish full contact with other people. External asexuality and even contempt for matters of sex is often combined with a constant masturbation and complex erotic fantasies, which, due to lack of connections with others, and long remained the major sexual experiences of such people, leading them ever further from the real sex life.